Sunday, February 20, 2005

Marriage

NO this has nothing to do with me. This was one of the later " epiphany's " that I had during my weekend of interesting thought. I realized why the divorce rate is so high in America. I was watching TV and a the comedian that I was watching made the point that marriage vows come when sex is often and good. I spent 12 years in a Catholic schools and among the things I learned, I was taught through a WAIT class that sex is meant for after marriage. I might not live up to this ( although I have good in part to circumstances, a sad thing to admit as a guy even though I was/am a player of sorts) But that was the teaching. Then it dawned on me, people probably 2 generations older that me ( and luckily my parents) were raised on this teaching. Sex was never made to be the basis of a relationship, but people who were drilled that it was mandatory to wait married for the person for the person. They made relationships based on real love, and since no sex was involved, it didn't matter if it was part of the relationship or not. It would be a concept worth looking into. It is really funny when love begins to mean something, and it is that love that I have always understood as real. When you love someone, you will do whatever and that is why love is ultimately a compromise. On that note I just realized something, what is it with black and Asian women that make people crush so much( guilty)? Only really cared once but it seems that in terms of being a player I follow that pattern and crush a lot.
Can't explain it but hey, do how you do.
To all my G's and ladies out there
Peace and Love
Jens , The Scorpion King

posted by J @ 10:43 PM

1 Comments:

At 9:49 PM, Blogger Fun Sized said...

As the beautiful, mocha, African goddess that I am, I can safely say that the reason that men find the allure of the brown, the black, and the yellow so appealing is because we exude a sexy aura that is purely unique from the rest. Why settle for blonde hair and blue eyes when you can have dark hair, and deep, dark eyes that sparkle like onyx? What can I say? Black (and Asian) is beautiful!

 

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